Parenting plan

Parenting plan

Are you getting divorced and do you have children? How can you minimize the impact of the divorce on your children? What are your rights and responsibilities as parents? And how can you work together to create a parenting plan that is in the best interest of your children? Creating a good parenting plan is essential to ensure the care of your children after divorce and to avoid misunderstandings.

What is a parenting plan?

A parenting plan is a mandatory document for parents who are separating and have minor children. It is a legally binding agreement that outlines the arrangements for the upbringing and care of the children. A good parenting plan provides clarity and stability for all involved. The main issues covered are:

Shared Care and Parenting Responsibilities: Who will care for the children and when? How will daily care be divided and what will happen during vacations and holidays?

Parental communication: Agreements about how you, as parents, will communicate with each other, including what medium and how often. This is crucial to working together smoothly after divorce.

Financial arrangements: Who will contribute to the cost of raising the children? This includes living expenses as well as costs for school, hobbies and medical care.

Decision-making on important matters: Who will make decisions about important issues such as education, health care and religious upbringing?

Changes and Disputes: How will you deal with changing circumstances? The parenting plan may need to be modified if, for example, you move or your income changes. And what happens if you disagree about the arrangements?

Why hire an attorney who specializes in parenting plans?

Creating a parenting plan can be complex, especially when emotions are running high. An attorney who specializes in parenting plans will ensure that the plan is legally sound and future-proof. In addition, a specialist family lawyer can mediate between you and your ex-partner to ensure that agreements are made that are in the best interests of your children.

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Need help setting up a parenting plan or need to modify an existing parenting plan? Our experienced family law attorneys are here to provide you with legal and personal assistance.

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