International divorce counselling

International divorce counselling

A Guide to International Divorce

An international divorce presents unique legal and practical challenges. Whether you live in the Netherlands and your partner lives abroad, or you are of different nationalities, it is important to understand how international family law affects your divorce. At Delissen Martens, we offer advice on international divorce with an eye to your specific situation and interests.

What is an international divorce?

A divorce is considered international if it has a cross-border element. This may be the case if:

  • One or both of you live abroad
  • You are of different nationalities
  • There is property or assets abroad

In such cases, international treaties and foreign law play an important role. It is therefore essential that you are assisted by a lawyer with a thorough knowledge of international family law.

Which law applies?

One of the first questions that arises in an international divorce is which law applies. This may depend on:

  • The place of residence of both partners
  • The nationality of the partners

The choice of applicable law affects various aspects of the divorce, such as the division of property, alimony and child custody arrangements.

Important aspects of an international divorce

International divorces often involve additional complexities. Important issues to consider include

1. Children and parenting plans
When children are involved, matters such as custody, care arrangements and child support must be carefully arranged, especially when parents live in different countries.

2. Assets and property
The division of international matrimonial assets, such as property abroad, requires specific knowledge of both Dutch and foreign law. Delissen Martens has an extensive international network of specialist family law lawyers, enabling us to provide you with tailored advice.

3. Maintenance and pensions
Both spousal and child maintenance may be subject to different rules depending on the country in which you live or work. Whether an accrued pension has to be equalized or settled in the event of a divorce is also determined by the law applicable to the settlement of assets. This may be Dutch law, but it may also be foreign law.

Do you need legal advice on an international divorce?

Are you considering a divorce abroad or are you already involved in a complex cross-border situation? At Delissen Martens we offer comprehensive advice on international divorce. From filing the divorce petition to reaching agreements on alimony, property division and child care, we will guide you every step of the way.

Our goal is to protect your interests and achieve the smoothest possible solution, even when several legal systems apply.

Sandra Verburgt
Questions about this area of law?
Please contact Sandra Verburgt

Team family law

Sandra Verburgt

Attorney at law/partner

Nicole van Leeuwen

Attorney at law/mediator

Fabian Buizer

Advocaat

Petra Beishuizen

Attorney at law/mediator/partner

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